Warning: the Scorpio male is a strong-minded, intuitive, protective, jealous, and powerful lover. This man gives 100% to everything in their life, from his career to his love life. This is probably why you will find they take so long to fully commit to someone as once they love; they love fully and intensely….
I’m sure by now you’ve heard about how sexy and mysterious this sign is. This is probably what led you to this article to begin with…Yes this is a very very sexy man. Trust me; there are no complaints with this man between the sheets. Sex is very important to this sign, and it would be impossible for him to have a happy relationship without great sex. This is because the Scorpio sign represents the symbol of sex; they only know how to express their emotions sexually which is what makes intimacy such a big part of being with a Scorpio male. So if you are not a very sexual person, I wish you luck.
We cannot discuss the scorpion male without mentioning that stare. There is something about that hypnotic Scorpio stare that only a scorpion male gives that makes you weak at the knees. If he is staring at you then you’ve manage to catch his attention, (lucky girl). Once you have glanced into the piercing, hypnotic eyes of a Scorpio male, you will never again be totally neutral towards him.
When you think of a Scorpio male think passion!!! Everything he does is done with passion and that applies to love life too. This is why you might find your Scorpio male disappearing on you every now and then and this is simply because he needs to retreat and recharge his batteries as this man goes full force into everything he does. Don’t be worried if you don’t hear from him for a week at a time, this does not mean they have forgotten about you. Tip: the more you try and see your Scorpio during this stage, the more he is going to retreat to the point where you may even lose him for to seeing you: this will not work! During this phase it is important to be as understanding to your Scorpio male as possible. When I say this is a complicated sign I mean it, to the point where sometime the poor guy doesn’t even understand the feelings he has himself…
For a Scorpio male, mystery is all part of the game. They are intense and deeply interested in uncovering hidden answers about you. They want to know everything about your life but good luck trying to find out anything about theirs; it takes a long long time trying to uncover their secrets or getting them to open up, so have patience…
If this man has picked you, count yourself lucky as they do so very wisely. He picks his friend very selectively, so you can imagine how fussy this boy is in choosing a lover. … They love to do some detective work, so be wary about what you reveal to him. Even when you’re flirting with him and being yourself, you don’t have to reveal everything about yourself at one go as this will remove your sense of mystery he desires so much. Leave him guessing, and he’ll want to spend more time with you so he can figure you out…As the Scorpio slowly discovers more about you, he’ll grow to trust you, which can ultimately lead to that deep emotional bond you are seeking from him. If you do manage to get close to him, (bear in mind this could take years), you will be rewarded with a warm deeply caring man that will ensure you are never left cold again.
Of course, he can’t be perfect and has his own set of faults like any other zodiac. This man is prone to have a mean temper, don’t ever arouse it. A furious Scorpio man can give you lifetime-lasting scars, especially when he is hurt, he can turn into the coldest and most malicious man at the click of a finger.
This is also an intensely jealous man, so don’t ever try and spark his jealousy to get his attention, this will just make the situation worse. The Scorpio needs to know they can trust you fully before committing to you with constant reassurance that he is the only one on your mind. Deliberately flirting with other men in front of him is not going to add any bonus points in your favor.
In case you are scared of getting burnt, better put your jogging shoes on and run away. This is not a relationship you should take lightly and only strong women who are able to withstand the mood swings and the disappearing acts need only apply. Note: these men despise mind games so do yourself a favor and don’t EVER try this on them.
Now ladies, before considering getting into a relationship with your beloved Scorpio man, remember that this is an extremely complicated man to get into a long term relationship with. You have to be ready to work at it for a long time. This is not the type of guy that is going to be committing to you after a month of dating no matter how much of a connection you think you share. No no no, they need to trust you fully and know you inside and out before giving you any type of commitment. Don’t be discouraged though, they secretly crave love and just need to the right patient girl to give that to him…
Another thing you need to know before getting your Scorpio man to commit is ensuring that your reputation is spotless. He will never ever go for a girl who is ludicrous or shameless and acts like the town flirt after a couple drinks. He also hates gossip and drama and doesn’t care about other people’s opinions. He knows what he is and what others say or think will hardly make a difference. Forget strangers, even the opinion of his friends or relatives doesn’t matter. This is a guy that will marry you even if the entire world is against you, (a good trait).
This male hates hates hates self-pity so ladies, those waterworks do not work with this man. In fact it will make his withdraw even more (trust me I’ve tried). He also hates a jealous woman as this interprets to an insecure woman, although he is an extremely jealous man himself. This may seem conflicting but this is just the way they are, love it or leave it.
A Scorpio man will never display his emotions in public about the one he is attracted to. In fact, he may even make fun of you in front of others or even blatantly ignore you. Don’t be alarmed by this, behind closed doors you will never meet a more passionate lover so don’t let it get to you if this man walks straight past you as if you don’t exist in public, keeps a girl on her toes depending on how you see it…
There is a light at the end of the tunnel and once he has made up his mind that you are the one for him, he will charm you out of your senses. You will be hypnotized by his captivating and intense gaze and won’t get the time to escape. If you have the courage and patience, you will be rewarded with a passion as hot as molten lava. He will take you along with him and you will see the world like never before. Once you have come to understand this complicated man, he will become the most kind, considerate, loving and selfless man in this world, a husband most women only dream about. You know the type of guy you only see in Nicolas Sparks’ novels, yes that guy. Good luck girls!